EXHORTATION๐ ๐ HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF ATTRACTIVE
Living creatures were made with the inert desire to
reproduce. By Godโs design, most
creatures need a partner to do so. "He created them male and female".
However, man does not have the feathers of a peacock nor the
bright colours of some primates so sometimes attracting a partner can be
challengingโฆ
Notwithstanding the fact that people are attracted by different attributes and in varying ways, we can develop spiritual, physical, mental and social characteristics that can be attractive to the complimentary sex.
Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from the Lord.
In this message we will learn how to attract a โgood thingโ and be an
attractive โgood thingโ in 4 categories:
Socially
Spiritually
Physically
Mentally
'A genuine connection with God in a down-to-earth practical way motivates others to trust you'
Posture is a very important characteristic of an attractive person.
POSTURE:
oPosition
oOpen posture
oSmile
oTerritory
oUndivided attention
oResponding
oEye Contact
"Let us allow God to make us genuinely the most attractive version of our 'true selves'."
[The entire presentation can be viewed below in this blog.]
THANKSGIVING ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
๐๐พ RAE-ANN
We give God thanks that He guided us to a scholarship opportunity for the next semester at Bergen Community College. We were told previously that there are no such opportunities for international students. Rae-Ann has applied and we now await an answer. Let's thank God for this opportunity with the hope that it will bear fruit.
As you know Rae-Ann is by her other aunt, Tessa. This seems to be a timely move by God since her 14 year old cousin Naomi, is at the stage where she can benefit with having the particular example and guidance of a big sister.
Glory to God! Please remember them in your prayer.
Rae-Ann and Naomi working together (Don't be dismayed if you will soon have to wonder who is the "big cousin") ... Hmm "Some "hand me ups" might well be in order... ๐
๐๐พ GRANDDAD
Lydia's father has been moving from strength to strength. Not quite yet his former self as I am not getting any buffs. However he is improving.
๐๐พ CHURCH REOPENS
Our churches are now being allowed to reopen and we are up to one and a half hour meetings.
PRAYER ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
๐๐พREUBEN
Reuben continues to develop his sound engineering skills while still on the hunt for a job. The Elders in one of our churches has given him an opportunity to set up a sound system for the church.
He is also attempting to acquire some additional tools and computer apps such as "Final cut Pro" to assist in a more effective way with the video production for our online ministry.
Please remember him in prayer.
๐๐พCAR
Still no headway at this time with the Comptroller of accounts. In the meantime we are attempting to get the car sold.
FOR SALE TT$9,000.00 Negotiable. The rest of the car is in good condition.
2007 Toyota Yaris
1300 cc
Please spread the word and remember us in prayer in this regard.
๐๐พCOMPUTER ISSUES
One of my main tools in the ministry, my computer, is currently limping along. Thank God that I am still able to use it. I tried to close it too quickly and the screen separated from the lid. I was able to pull it together but it is no longer operating as it should.
Pressure
๐๐พPRISON MINISTRY
Due to an increase in Covid-19 cases within the prison system we are locked out again and therefore have to await a further verdict to get in again.
Please remember this in prayer.
๐๐พHAMSTER PROBLEMS
You may remember our midnight funeral in May 2020. We thought that we may have had another, which may have caused a little heartache in East Orange New Jersey.
Turned out that it was an abscess on Vite's left eye so "granny Lydia" under instructions from the Vet is administering medication and nursing him back to health.
Nursing duties to comfort a heart that is miles away
MINISTRYโชโชโช
โช CHURCH - CAUGHT WITH MY SHOES OFF!
We have been involved in the following:
โชEbenezer Trinidad. Virtual service - October 25
During the "Church yard fellowship" after church, a sister wearing a very dark pair of shades ๐ due to eye surgery, made the disclosure. "Brother Brown, you were well dressed but I could not help noticing that you had no shoes..." (The eye specialist did a wonderful job indeed! Glory to God! And my test worked wonderfully!)
A Brother from Canada interjected that "as Christians we are not supposed to 'see DEFEET' ๐จ. My only defense was: That I needed to validate scripture.
How beautiful upon the mountains Are the feet of him who brings good news, Who proclaims peace, Who brings glad tidings of good things, Who proclaims salvation,
Caught with my shoes off
The virtual "churchyard" was hot following that service.
โชMaranatha Trinidad - October 25th
We also prepared an audio message for Maranatha that morning.
Prep for Maranatha
โชEbenezer, Trinidad - November 8
Ministering at Ebenezer
๐FUNERALS
"It is appointed unto men once to die". We continue to have funeral services. Many of them in service to the community.
๐The family members of Ms. Shirley David were ministered to under a tent in the Tunapuna public Cemetery on Thursday, October, 22.
Family and friends of the late Shirley David as her body was being laid to rest
๐ 23 year old Derrick George, a former Sunday School student, was fatally shot as he attempted to pull away from bad company. His body was laid to rest on Friday, November 6, at the Western Cemetery.
Family and friends gathered at Olivet Gospel Hall
โชLYDIA - BETHESDA SISTERS' FORUM
Lydia had the privilege of ministering in testimony to the Sisters at the Bethesda Gospel Hall Sisters' Forum on Thursday, October 29. She told the Sisters about her fight with breast cancer and how God was able to deliver her.
Bethesda's Women's Forum
Glory to God
โช SOUTH SISTERS' FORUM
On Saturday, October 31, I had the privilege to minister to the South Sisters' Group on the topic of Homosexuality. We discussed the causes and methods of intervention. We also explored how the church should respond to it.
A Thorn among roses
โช CHRISTIAN BRETHREN ASSEMBLIES CAMPS TOBAGO
Also on Saturday, October 31, I had the responsibility to speak at the Camp Reunion. We had a very fulfilling time with the children and young people.
Glory to God.
โช JERNINGHAM JUNCTION MARRIAGE FORUM
We partnered with Jerningham Junction Gospel Hall to present a Marriage Forum. Last Thursday was the second meeting and the topic was "Unmasking and Transparency". Lydia had the responsibility of managing the PowerPoint.
I am due to conclude my part of the facilitating on Thursday, November 12, (Tomorrow God willing). The topic we would discuss is about starting relationships and maintaining interest during marriage.
We ministered to just over 100 people last Thursday
Starting RELATIONSHIPS and Maintaining excitement
Jerningham Junction Gospel Hall's MARRIAGE FORUM
This LIVE INTERACTIVE FORUM is for all. (Married and Single). Come and get down to earth, Biblical Answers about RELATIONSHIPS.
Date: Continuing on THURS 12 NOV. onward
Time: 7:00 - 9:00PM Caracas (OR 6pm EST)
This week's topic:
"SHOOT YUH SHOT and KEEP SCORING"
Come and discuss the steps to building a healthy relationship and maintaining the passion even within mature marriages.
Online storytelling with Sis Jasmin continued during this period.
Sis Jasmin also had the opportunity to Minister at Sunday School at Dayrells Road, Gospel Hall on Sunday, November 8. She has also received request for her poetry to be used at a Sunday School end of year programme.
โช NORTH UNITED SISTERS' PRAYER GROUP CHRISTIAN BRETHREN ASSEMBLIES T&T VIRTUAL MISSIONS DINNER & PLEDGE-A-TON
This group has been a real source of support, annually, for missionaries. Which is especially needed at this time when many are unable to support as before. This event is laid out on the flyer below and I urge you to share widely and support.
I wish to personally commend the Sisters as they listened to the call of God and was lead to this very innovative way of having this dinner this year.
๐๐พ๐ THANK YOU
We sincerely thank those who have been led to support us financially, your gifts were timely and they were used as God led.
Thank you again for your continued prayerful support. ๐๐พ๐๐๐๐พ
EXHORTATION๐ ๐ SIX THINGS YOU MUST DO DURING COURTSHIP
Too many people are still "courting trouble" by using courtship as an "unmasking tool", whilst others (who now know better from prior knowledge or our YouTube videos on "unmasking") still have trouble figuring out what to do during courtship.
God expects, during this wonderful period, that couples would comfort and build up one another for marriage, whilst they discuss details and make concrete plans for the wedding as well as firm investments for their marriage.
1st Thessalonians
5:
11 Therefore comfort
each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing
"Let us be
deliberate and purpose driven during courtship."
'It sis better to die single than to live in a bad marriage'
If you are going
to have an effective comforting courtship:
Synchronize
Ministries
Plan and Organize
Discuss and Decide
Bond and Socialize
Pray and Listen
Attend Counselling
Premarital
relationships or โcourtshipsโ can be challenging or overwhelming sometimes. However,
it is necessary that we have a clear understanding of what we should be doing
during courtship.
"Let us be deliberate and purpose driven during courtship."
[The entire presentation can be viewed below in this blog.]
THANKSGIVING ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
๐๐พ We give God thanks for the opportunity to celebrate 54 on October 13.
Dinner was served at 2030 hrs. at "La Casa Buena Vista". Compliments to the Chef, "Senora Lydia".
A toast to "54" and expanding shirts!
Lydia wanted to ensure that we were true to Isaiah 52:7 and Romans 10:15 - How lovely on the mountains....
She sent me for a pedicure for my birthday. Trust me when I tell you my feet looked worse before.
PRAYER ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
๐๐พHOSPITALIZED
Please remember Lydia's father in prayer he has been hospitalized and is currently undergoing tests to determine the cause of his symptoms.
The latest update (21/10/20). He was moved to the Arima Hospital in the new wing designated for Covid-19 patients. His tests came back and he is Covid NEGATIVE. He is being moved back to the Port Of Spain General Hospital for further observation and treatment.
๐๐พCAR
Please continue to remember us in prayer since there was an issue with the pay-sheet with our payment which caused delays in printing the cheque. God is always on time.
๐๐พRAE-ANN
Rae-Ann is currently visiting with her Auntie Tessa for a change of environment to combat the effects of "cabin fever" due to the Covid-19 restrictions and measures.
She still continues to excel in the area of her academic pursuits.
Please remember her in your prayer.
MINISTRYโชโชโช
โช THE HUSBAND MINISTRY
Trying to fulfill my #1 earthly ministry
What can I say? I guess I can still get down... but could I get back up? ๐
โช PRISON MINISTRY
We are still formulating a plan to minister to the inmates on the required device.
โช VIRTUAL CHURCH
โช On Sunday, October 11, we visited the virtual meeting at Bethel Gospel Chapel in East Orange, New Jersey.
โช On Sunday, October 18, we had the honour of ministering at Bethesda Gospel Hall in Laventille, Trinidad via the zoom platform.
Ministering via zoom at Bethesda
โช SIS JASMIN SIMMONS
Online storytelling with Sis Jasmin continued during this period.
Reuben continues to use his expertise to assist with the video productions. Please remember him with regard to spiritual development and in his quest for a job within the area of his field.
The sound engineer and producer at work.
โช CADETS
On Wednesday, October 7, we assisted Pastor Alva Corbin as he joined Ahfichia Maynard and Leonard Kennedy in holy matrimony at the First Capital Park in St Joseph.
Lydia and I also had the honour of giving the bride away and walking her down the path respectively.
Reub pitched in with the prep of the venue
The residents at the gazebo willingly obliged to allow us to use their home.
I am sure the gazebo residents appreciated our domestic services๐
A well trained Cadet can slow march in heels...
Prayer for the Bride and Groom
The Bride and Groom Striking a pose with the "Mother Giver"
โช SINGLES CAMP
We are pressing ahead to get things off the ground for the virtual singles' seminar which we are recommending be pushed back to November 27 to November 29, via zoom.
Registration details will be out soon.
โช ELECTRONIC MINISTRY
โช YOU-TUBE
During the period under review two videos were posted on YouTube.
You may click here to view.
How to avoid false expectations.
Click here to view
Six things you must do during courtship
Stay tuned for the live question and answer session to follow.
๐๐พ๐ THANK YOU
We sincerely thank those who have been led to support us financially, your gifts were timely and they were used as God led.
Thank you again for your continued prayerful support. ๐๐พ๐๐๐๐พ